Tuesday, November 1, 2011

I was called FAT !

I was in an okay mood today until a friend of mine finally break the vase and calls me fat. It literally makes me sad and very, very offended. 

FAT is a mean word. Typically offensive to those people who suffer obesity or innate obese. How would you feel when you are called fat? It is as like you are being called ugly in the same way. Such mean word can really pulls down one's self-esteem. It makes us hate ourselves so much that there is no self-appreciation anymore inside ourselves.

Growing up as a teenager, I used to get that a lot. Being called fat repeatedly will definitely make us feel vulnerable. I hate it. But you know what, sometimes it is not our option to choose between 'being fat' or 'being not fat'. But we can change these opinionated perceptions. We can, at least, make ourselves feel a little more comfortable and believe in ourselves.

I don't hate the people who call me fat because they will never understand us. They criticize us and they detest us. But you know what, leave them aside because they have forgotten themselves and they will find their glory road eventually. Law of Karma will definitely hit them back. xD

Last but not least, I will leave you, people who suffer from obesity, a quotation to ponder a while. Good luck.

Maya Angelou once said " If you don't like it, change it. If you can't change it, change you attitude".

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