Of hate and love

I had just done watching Transformer: Age of Extinction with my family members. What I can say was that the background music was a bit noisy but damn, the animations and CGI were just magnificent! (I still prefer Divergent) Upon going back home since it was already 9pm, we decided to stop by at a restaurant for late dinner. Things got a little bit heated up when my aunt and my uncle argued over decision making on ordering dishes. Angry words were used and fiery eyes were exchanged between them.

There on, I ponder a while. Fightings and arguments usually occur in a relationship. It is amazing how one spouse can tolerate another no matter how ugly their argument turned out to be. I wonder, can I do that with my partner in the future? Mankind are easily manipulated by emotions and therefore, we act out of these emotions which subsequently damage our relationship. It is amazing how my uncle can remain calm (though I know he is kinda hurt by those bashful words used on him) and how he is able to forgive and forget so fast. What makes him to be so tolerable? What makes him so calm? 

I guess it is a form of unconditional love...? It is so rare, so precious that mankind ought to forgive and forget all the hates, anger, sadness, jealousy and all kinds of sins on the person you love. I have not been officially in a relationship before, but unconditional love rarely exist nowadays, I think. Because mankind is so blinded by materialism - looks, body, status. If we are to find our life partner based on this three criteria, can we still find unconditional love?