You know, sometimes you wish someone will tell you that 'I am so proud of you. You have been so strong all this while and that's why I am so proud of you' rather telling you that you have a weak heart and that you need be stronger than before.

I realise that, in overcoming adversity, you are dealing it with your own self and that nobody is going to be able to comprehend the extent and value of your hardship. The most they can do is to listen to you and offer the their very best advice to you. But at the end of the day, you still have to deal with the issue and struggle by your own self. It's a battle within oneself.

Nobody owns you a responsibility to offer his help and to pick you up when you fall down. You have to get back up and walk the walk.

It's a struggle. It's a fight. And it's a contemplation.

Be strong? It's just an elusive concept made by people to comfort themselves telling them 'it's okay' - but in reality it's not.